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I Didn’t Have Pregnancy Abs—and You Won’t Either

Thursday, March 12th, 2015

Alesandra Dubin 35 weeks pregnantHave you been following the controversy surrounding the pregnant model with abs? In short, 30-year-old Sarah Stage has been documenting her pregnancy on social media sites like Instagram. Now nearly ready to deliver, her bump is—shall we say—quite subtle, appearing more of a gentle arc surrounded by visible abdominal muscles.

This has people very much in a tizzy. Her posts have generated thousands of comments, ranging from the envious and self loathing to the hateful and shaming. My first question, to borrow a cultural phrase from a very formative time in my life, is: Can’t we all just get along? Seriously, can’t we all agree to stop body shaming and judging? If the comments on this model’s photos—and on every pregnant woman’s posts, and every parent’s posts, and every person’s posts—looked like the warm and supportive comments on the Humans of New York posts… well then, the world would truly be a more magical and perfect place.

But moving beyond that, let’s all get with reality here. This model looks gorgeous, obviously. She also says she has gained 20 pounds so far in her pregnancy, which is nearing the recommended guidelines for a person of normal weight. (And she claims to eat the occasional cheeseburger, so she’s apparently not starving herself in the hopes of keeping weight off during pregnancy.) And she hits the gym with regularity. But in addition to her workout regimen, it would be quite obvious to anyone with the remotest critical-thinking abilities (so all of us here, of course!) that genetics plays a huge role in her current physique—and our inherited genetics, alas, are out of our control.

That’s why, likewise, most of us have only some amount of control over our pregnancy physiques. That’s me in the photo at 35 weeks, pregnant with twins. You’ll notice my decided lack of abs while I carried 12 pounds and 2 ounces worth of baby in my midsection. I’m also a generally fit person, who has been known to schedule entire days around gimmicky workout classes that excite me. So imagine my surprise and disappointment when I found myself halfway through my pregnancy and unable to work out—and discouraged by my doctors to do even prenatal yoga given my risk categories, and excessive fluid, or polyhydramnios—and barely able to even walk by 32 weeks. It’s not what I’d had in mind, and it wouldn’t have been my preference nor my choice, but it didn’t happen because I was lazy and didn’t want pregnancy abs (I can barely write the words without laughing because of how unlikely the phenomenon is among the masses) bad enough.

Similarly, pretty much no one else ever will have pregnancy abs. There is a margin of error there, but I’m pretty sure it’s small. But all pregnant bodies are freakin’ miraculous—can I get an amen? So I’d prefer we all use that language to describe them instead of using words like “fit” on one side of the spectrum (with implied judgment that women who gain more are lazy) or “GIANT” and “huge” on the other (as if, in many cases, those women could choose the precise ways in which their bodies changed).

So that’s my take on the pregnant abs dust up. Now don’t get me started on the cultural post-pregnancy body feedback

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Alesandra Dubin is a new twin mom. She’s also a Los Angeles-based writer and the founder of home and travel blog Homebody in Motion. Follow her on Facebook, Instagram, Google+ and Twitter.

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Pregnancy Workouts: Is It Safe to Exercise?
Pregnancy Workouts: Is It Safe to Exercise?
Pregnancy Workouts: Is It Safe to Exercise?

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The Big Lesson Milla Jovovich Is Learning With Pregnancy Number Two

Wednesday, January 21st, 2015

Mila Jovovich pregnancy weightDuring my twin pregnancy, I picked up a lot of common mythology—like “Breastfeeding makes the weight just magically melt off!” and “You’ll be teeny tiny in no time with two babies to keep up with!” While those concepts may play out for some people, they hardly proved true in my case. Losing the weight has been all about huge effort and perseverance steadily over months—no magic involved.

That’s a (hard) lesson I learned as a naive first-time mom, and something I’d be more realistic about if I were planning to be pregnant a second time (which I’m not, since I got my two in a one-shot deal)!

Of course, I’m not the only mom to have been naive about pregnancy weight gain. It’s a common fallacy among many of us—even celeb mamas. Among those is second-time expecting mama Milla Jovovich, who just posted a prenatal fitness update on her Facebook page that reveals she had some of the same thoughts after her first time around—and is a lot smarter about weight gain now with baby number two on the way.

Writing candidly about her current weight (170 pounds) and her plans until delivery day, she said, “I’ve gained all the baby weight I need to have a healthy pregnancy—30 pounds—and as of last week, I’ve started having to be really careful about my lifestyle so I don’t continue to gain unnecessarily, which is not healthy for me OR my newborn. I’m really proud of myself for not gaining the same amount of weight that I did with our first child (75 pounds) because I have to be ready to start filming Resident Evil—The Final Chapter in August of this year and I will also be nursing an infant simultaneously (get ready wardrobe department for Alice’s new “easy mama access” costume) so I don’t want to be on any extreme diets to get ready to go back to action hero mode!”

Two-time mama Jessica Simpson is also among the stars who had the same experience following her first time around. She told ABC News in 2013 that she didn’t gain as much weight with the second baby. She said, “Any woman, dealing with their body after pregnancy, you look at yourself and you’re like, ‘What just happened to me?’… Going into my second pregnancy, I was just like, ‘Oh, I can’t eat the whole cake. I can just eat a piece of cake.’”

And that sounds like a sensible plan!

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Alesandra Dubin is a new twin mom. She’s also a Los Angeles-based writer and the founder of home and travel blog Homebody in Motion. Follow her on Facebook, Instagram, Google+ and Twitter.

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Weight and Pregnancy: Gain Only What You Need
Weight and Pregnancy: Gain Only What You Need
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Is Pregnancy Weight Gain Connected to Baby’s Gender?

Tuesday, December 23rd, 2014

Pregnancy Weight GainPeople are always looking for patterns to connect pregnancy symptoms with baby’s gender. And while many such connections are just myth based, there’s hard data to show that the latest pattern to emerge is totally grounded in reality: The more weight you gain during pregnancy, the more likely you are to deliver a boy.

This news comes from a study published in PLOS One, which analyzed data from nearly 70 million births over a close to a quarter century. It determined that increased pregnancy weight correlated with male babies.

When moms-to-be gained about 20 pounds, they delivered about 49 percent male babies—so under half. But when pregnant women gained 40 pounds, they delivered boys about 52.5 percent of the time. And when they gained 60 pounds, they delivered boys a notable 54 percent of the time. (Above 60 pounds, the connection went away.)

Why is this the case? Well, it’s not completely known. But Kristen J. Navara, the doctor who analyzed the data, wrote, “It is possible that this relationship results from the fact that male embryos and fetuses have higher metabolic rates, and likely need more caloric energy to develop successfully.”

Given that I delivered a boy and girl at the same time following my twin pregnancy, I’m never a great test of these theories. But I’d love to know if this jives with your experience—let me know in the comments!

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Boy or Girl: How Genetics Determine Your Baby's Gender
Boy or Girl: How Genetics Determine Your Baby's Gender
Boy or Girl: How Genetics Determine Your Baby's Gender

Alesandra Dubin is a new twin mom, as well as a Los Angeles-based writer and the founder of home and travel blog Homebody in Motion. Follow her on Facebook, Google+ and Twitter.

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See Which Petite Pregnant Star Is Up 40 Pounds — And Owning It!

Tuesday, November 4th, 2014

While it’s rare for celebrities to talk about their pregnancy weight gain in plain terms, it does occasionally—refreshingly—happen.

Consider Kendra Wilkinson Baskett, who recently revealed that she gained 55 pounds during her second pregnancy, going from 120 to 175 on the scale. Of course, she’s shed much of that weight already, and was well on her way to her trim pre-pregnancy model bod by the time she dished on those specifics.

But what’s even more rare—you might call it the unicorn of celebrity pregnancy coverage—is a star who’s talking about her significant pregnancy weight gain while she’s right in the middle of it.

Pregnant actress Hayden Panettiere told Hello! magazine (as cited in the Daily Mail) that she’s gained close to 40 pounds on her itty bitty frame. “I’m 5 feet, 2 inches, and I started out at 106 pounds and guess how much I weigh now? Around 145 pounds,” she said. “And the worst part is that my feet are still size five and they’re going, ‘What’s going on with all this weight?’ They’re about to snap from underneath me with the strain.”

She also believes her muscular nature—she was a former gymnast—is contributing to the extra pounds.

Not surprisingly, the star has every intention of taking off the weight after her baby girl comes. She told the mag she wasn’t planning to wed fiance Wladimir Klitschko carrying 40 extra pounds.

No matter what, the expectant mama looks gorgeous. Check out our gallery of other stars who looked fab filled out with extra pregnancy weight, too!

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Which Star Copped to Gaining 55 Pounds During Pregnancy?

Wednesday, October 1st, 2014

The medical community recommends that average-weight women carrying a single baby in pregnancy gain in the neighborhood of 25 to 35 pounds. And wouldn’t it be nice if we all fell magically into that ideal window?

Well, reality frequently gets in the way of ideal guidelines, especially when it comes to the wild journey of pregnancy. And not just for us mere mortals — but for celebrity mamas too. Turns out stars are just like us! (Sometimes.)

Case in point: Kendra Wilkinson Baskett recently revealed that she gained 55 pounds during her second pregnancy. “I started at 120 and ended up at 175,” she told Giuliana Rancic in an interview recapped in E! Online.

And although she’s got plenty on her plate these days with a 4-month-old daughter, 4-year-old son, and marital turmoil amid allegations of her husband’s cheating — she’s found a diet that she says is working “so good” to get back in shape. She credits Atkins with the fast weight loss, though she says she’s really having to work at it instead of the weight just magically dropping off.

“I’m an athlete. I thought I would lose the weight so fast right after having the [first] baby, but I didn’t,” she said.

And ain’t that the truth? For many of us, postpartum recovery and fitness takes major commitment. And it’s refreshing to see a star whose pregnancy and post-baby arc seems to mirror many of the experiences of those of us here in the real world.

No, doctors don’t advise a 55-pound weight gain — but life happens. Even to celebs.

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Weight and Pregnancy: Gain Only What You Need
Weight and Pregnancy: Gain Only What You Need
Weight and Pregnancy: Gain Only What You Need

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