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Tuesday, March 4th, 2014
3 years, 3 months.
Yesterday Mommy prepared some vegan ravioli for you for dinner.
It was a bit of an experiment, since you usually get cheese in your ravioli. But this time, it was vegetables and garlic instead- no cheese.
Mommy and I were both curious to see how you would react to veggie version…
You have this habit, like most 3 year-olds, I assume, of trying to negotiate how little “real food” you have to eat, so that you can end your meal with some kind of treat.
As Mommy placed the ravioli on your plate, she jokingly mentioned that there was chocolate inside the ravioli.
It was amazing how we didn’t have to keep prompting to eat your dinner. For 20 minutes, you ate your ravioli with no complaints.
Then finally, you politely observed, “Mommy, I don’t taste chocolate in my ravioli…”.
Mommy and I immediately burst out in laughter. We realized at that moment, you didn’t understand Mommy was joking when she mentioned that there was chocolate in them…
You were so eager to eat chocolate for dinner, that you kept eating the veggie raviolis in hopes that you would discover some hidden chunks of chocolate to make it worth your while.
Even funnier is that you would willingly eat vegetables mixed with chocolate, if it meant you got to eat chocolate. As for me, at least, I would want them separate.
Not you. For you, chocolate is chocolate.
While the story doesn’t end with you getting chocolate chunks in your ravioli, it does end with you getting chocolate almond milk, as well as, some vegan gummy bears.
You were happy and so were your parents.
Plus, Mommy and I were happy because we got you to eat veggie-stuffed ravioli without any complaints.
If only this plan were repeatable…
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Wednesday, July 3rd, 2013
2 years, 7 months.
Last week I told how you’ve recently been requesting to be in trouble so you could be in time-out instead of getting dressed in the morning.
Well, you have been extending that same clever line of thought in regards to bed time too.
Like tonight, for example.
After having already eaten your mac and cheese Mommy made for you especially, you waited until right before your “pre-bedtime playtime” was almost over until you decided that you wanted some more food… whatever Mommy and Daddy were having.
Tonight, it was veggie burritos. And honestly, they were a bit on the spicy side.
However, that didn’t stop you.
It was “Operation: Stall Dinner By Stuffing My Face” and you weren’t going to let anything get in your way… as long as Mommy and Daddy let you get away with it.
Which we did.
Since both of us are off of work for July 4th and you’re not having school, Mommy and I perhaps were a little bit in “whatever works” mode.
So we let you eat a semi-spicy burrito. Then, since you were still hungry/pretending to be, you took your time also downloading a Gogo Squeez applesauce pouch.
After that, I watched you drink a cup of water slower than I’ve ever seen you drink.
Actually, I was starting to wonder if you were pretending to be at the dentist, as you slothfully swished the water around in your mouth before finally swallowing it.
Son, I was quite impressed by your skills tonight. You did a great job making it look like you hadn’t already just eaten one dinner before having a second one.
Just be lucky we like you so much.
We could have sent you to bed without your 2nd dinner. Oh wait, that’s not how the saying goes…
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Wednesday, February 6th, 2013
2 years, 2 months.
After you bought groceries by swiping Mommy’s expired debit card on your high chair, you proceeded to bring a box of Annie’s macaroni and cheese to your Thomas the Train play table, along with two plates and two spoons.
“I make Jack and Daddy dinner,” you casually proclaimed.
You shook the closed orange box upside down and stirred the invisible pasta into a plate, then served me.
I ended up having seconds, then thirds.
To you, dinner means Annie’s whole wheat macaroni and cheese. Period.
It’s not that your parents haven’t tried to introduce you to other options. You’ll eat rice and beans, quesadillas, pizza, bananas, goldfish crackers, bananas, raisins, pureed fruit, cereal, and… well, actually, that’s pretty much it.
However, if we gave you macaroni and cheese every single night for dinner, you would never complain or ask for anything else.
Tonight, Mommy decided to mix things up by making Macaroni and Cheese Cupcakes, based on a recipe she found online from Giada of The Food Network.
We substituted fresh carrots for the chicken that the recipe called for, meaning your macaroni and cheese for tonight was full of vegetables.
You liked the Mac and Cheese Cupcakes. We will be repeating this recipe.
So here is the takeaway:
Don’t be surprised if we start tossing broccoli, carrots, and zucchini into the other few menu items you eat, like your rice and beans, pizza, and quesadillas.
As your parents, we no longer have to feel slightly guilty about only feeding you the few select meals you will actually eat.
We will simply begin enhancing your “bread and cheese” meals with whole veggies. If you don’t like it… then you can eat cereal.
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Monday, November 12th, 2012
For the first time ever, we had dinner together as a family, at the kitchen table, with no high chairs involved. Just my son’s booster seat.
Somehow his reaction to “eating at the table like a big boy” came across like he was a Southern rapper in a video shoot, showing off his newly acquired grandiose lifestyle.
I don’t know why he felt the need to put his foot on the table while he sipped on his pureed vegetable pouch; but he insisted, and we didn’t argue.
After all, this is the South. We can get away with quirky stuff like that simply by saying, “This is the South.”
That might also explain why our son asked for, and received, butter on his homemade whole wheat veggie pizza.
Part of the success of your child making it through an entire dinner, without a high chair, is knowing they actually ate dinner.
We have finally gotten to the point where he understands he must A) eat the same dinner as his parents, B) eat Cheerios and milk, or C) go to bed early.
This particular night he chose both veggie pizza with butter and Cheerios.
Our first family dinner at the kitchen table went much better than I thought it would:
No spills, no melt-downs, and most importantly, I actually got to finish my meal without any annoying interruptions.
I like this change. My son will be 2 years old in just a few days and his maturity is starting to show.
Perhaps he’s just simply eager to please his parents as the only child (so far?) but I could tell he really liked feeling a part of the family during our dinner.
My expectations were so low, rightfully. Fortunately, my son proved me wrong.
Maybe the secret is just adding butter. If so, it’s worth it. No more of me quickly eating dinner over the kitchen sink before I have to rush him upstairs for his bedtime.
At least that’s what I’m hoping for.
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