Monday, June 4th, 2012
A year and a half.
You’ve met Jack’s friends Henry and Sophie before. Well, this past Saturday morning all of us parents decided to get together so we could see how our kids play in an environment with each other outside of their daycare.
After a delicious and glorious breakfast at Henry’s house, Henry’s dad suggested we could check out the “drum circle” going on just a few blocks away.
Honestly, I had no idea what a drum circle was, but it sounded random and therefore enticing… so it was fine by me.
The nine of us made our way to a white tent, covering a man playing a giant bongo drum. In his midst were plenty of chairs for visitors and various sized of bongos for us all to play on.
I guess the concept is that you just show up and drum along to the beat, letting friendly conversations and positive vibes do the rest.
Henry and Sophie seemed to get it. As for Jack, he was more of a skeptic. The tambourine seemed to be more his speed; of course while holding a yellow car he snatched from Henry’s house.
“Jack is like the old man telling the hippies to get out of his yard playing that crazy music,” Henry’s dad pointed out.
Yeah, that pretty much sums it up.
I did think it was funny how while we were there, it was pretty much just us parents and toddlers. The event was similar to many of the scenes in the movie Garden State.
If only Jack were able to remember going to the drum circle when he was 18 months-old, he would say, “Hey dad, remember that time we went to that weird tent where that guy was playing a drum for no reason and we all were supposed to play along? Well, what was that all about? And weren’t Henry and Sophie there too?”
As I tell this story now, it sounds more like a strange dream; which is how most of my childhood memories remain in my mind.
But really, it was the perfect morning. What better way to spend it than with friends all trying something exciting and new… and random.
Those kinds of memories are the best. Shared experiences that in hindsight seem abstract and even pointless.
That’s what adds character to friendship; even for toddlers.
Not to mention, it was free to go to the drum circle. Not even an awkward tip jar.
It’s always a good place to get a sneak peak at what’s going on. You’ll even be invited to give me input and advice for upcoming articles.
Peace out, fellow parents.Add a Comment