Does Being A Good Parent Make You More Judgmental?
2 years, 6 months.
For the past two weeks, while riding in the car with me to and from school, you had been asking for a black van.
I have no idea why. It’s not like you saw a cool black van or something.
So with Nonna and Papa (my parents) coming up for Memorial Day weekend, I figured I should let them know in case they could find one of my old childhood toys to suffice.
The plan worked, basically.
Papa found an old Tonka van of mine from circa-1985, but it was silver and red.
So he used a can of black spray paint and made it the right color.
Your “new” black van has snazzy red interior and has these cool “window walls.”
Yes, you were quite impressed.
As for me, however, I jokingly referred to your new toy as a “creeper van.”
It’s just that when I was young, I was taught to never go near big black vans with no windows in the very back… for safety reasons.
Similarly, though I have a nostalgic fascination of ice cream trucks, in reality, I have a distrust for the people who drive them… or big black vans with no windows in the very back.
I don’t want to be prejudiced towards anyone about anything, but if I said that I’m not leery of certain seemingly peculiar people in certain seemingly peculiar situations, then I would be lying.
Just a few days ago I told the story about how I myself creep out other parents when I do pull-ups at the playground on my lunch break; without you there with me.
However, I don’t feel judged by those parents. Actually, I totally get it. I just think it’s funny.
Does being a good parent make someone more judgmental, prejudice, and untrusting of others?
I can only speak for myself; and if I do, then that probably technically makes me prideful because I am assuming I am a good parent.
Somewhat interestingly, I admit I might come across as judgmental, prejudiced, and untrusting of others because of the fact that I see big black vans as “red flags.”
I call it being wisely protective. Others may see it as judgmental… but does that make them judgmental? I don’t know.
Clearly, I don’t have any answers. I’m just asking questions today.
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