And The Award For “World’s Best Father” Goes To Dave Engledow…
We modern dads can be a sensitive crowd, as learned from this year’s Huggies fiasco. It comes down to the fact we don’t want to portrayed as the idiots that sitcoms and commercials have made us look like throughout recent decades.
I have pointed out several times by now the cliche about men freaking out when changing their kid’s diaper. It’s so annoying to see another token image of a goofball dad holding his nose or making a theatrical face while taking care of “diaper doody.”
Unless, that image is part of Dave Engledow’s “World’s Best Father” photo series, which is currently buzzing on the Internet. (Let’s be honest- that’s why I’m writing about it now.)
His photos poke fun at negative stereotypes of dads. In other words, he’s unknowingly supporting my “Non-Doofus Dad Awareness” cause by showing the world hilarious, over-the-top examples of how not to do this thing called fatherhood.
Engledow explains it this way on his Kickstarter project page which he set up to fund the World’s Best Father 2013 Calendar:
“The character I portray in this series is intended to be a parody of the father I hope I never become–distracted, self-absorbed, neglectful, clueless, or even occasionally overbearing.
I’ve always used humor as a way to deal with my personal fears and neuroses, and in many ways these images are often an attempt to do just that–to illustrate humorously the fears that I and, as I’ve learned, many other new fathers have about fatherhood”
Without a doubt, this is my kind of guy.
I have a feeling that like me, he would mock, not celebrate, the idea of a “Dadchelor Party.”
One of my favorites of Engledow’s “World’s Best Father” series portrays him as an overzealous dad/coach who is training his toddler daughter to become an Olympic diver: He is coercing her into jumping off the mantle into a small wading pool on the living room floor.
Another shows Engledow struggling to win an arm wrestling contest with his young daughter.
Some parents these days seem to nearly beg for our attention when it comes to pictures and status updates about what’s going on with their kids.
After you check out more of Engledow’s pictures, it becomes clear that he doesn’t have to beg for any of our attention. He already has it.
In case you missed that first hyperlink to transport you to his web page, featuring his pictures, here it is again:
Image: Engledow Art Photography.