Domestic Adoption and Foster Care in the USA

In the U.S., there are thousands of foster care youth waiting to be adopted. Many are older (more than 9 years old), and with each passing year, they are less likely to be adopted, and more likely to “age out” of the foster care system without the support of a caring and  responsible adult.

Studies have shown that older youth are more likely to be adopted by people who know them. Yet, adults often don’t have opportunities to meet these wonderful children who are longing for a permanent family. According to the adoption service KidSave.org, older kids are frequently not even considered. Many of these children are overlooked for adoption because they are not babies or toddlers. Older kids have a lot of value and can add much joy to a family. Children age 11 and older in the foster care system are more likely to grow up in the system than be adopted.

Stats for kids age 11 and older still in foster care, according to KidSave.org: 

  1. One in 10 will commit suicide
  2. Less than half will finish high school
  3. As many as 50% go to jail
  4. One in 4 will become parents before age 20

This great organization (thanks for the readers who recommended the site)  is seeking volunteers in many different areas across the country. If you are interested in becoming a Kidsave volunteer, log onto a local schedule.  Volunteers are needed to create events, serve on committees, find auction items, build attendance, get the word out, and support fund raising, support programs, and help with logistics.

KidSave.org has an astounding goal: To connect 1,000,000 orphans and foster youth to parents and mentors across the country by the year 2020. Count me in — we need more support for foster kids who are so sadly aging out of the system.

How can you help? Log on and find out.

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  1. by Dennis

    On August 27, 2012 at 6:46 am

    Let stable people adopt, no matter their orientation-

  2. by Christina

    On September 4, 2012 at 7:20 am

    Definitely not! Although people who are gays and lesbians are human beings and have the potential to be great parents, their chosen lifestyle is not appropriate for children. Many children will grow up bullied and also, assume that having two parents of the same gender (or one parent who sleeps with the same gender) is “normal.” It is not. Furthermore, there are countless heterosexual couples waiting for years to adopt children — a gay couple should not have the same rights as they do. Our nation (and other nations) have become to accepting of “alternative lifestyles.” All children deserve a loving, two-parent HETEROSEXUAL, married couple for parents. This is said by a woman whose husband was adopted and raised by a single mother, who still struggles with learning how to be a man 30+ years later.

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