Q. My 9-month-old has lost interest in nursing. Do babies self-wean? What should I do?
A. There are a couple of reasons that this could be happening, says Anne Garrett, an international board certified lactation consultant in San Francisco. First, your baby is becoming increasingly mobile and interested in the world around him. There are many things competing for his attention, and sitting on your lap facing you to nurse may not be as exciting as flexing his crawling muscles or checking out who's coming and going. And since your baby has been on solids for several months and is perhaps eating from the table by now, he may be filling up on these foods, so he's not as hungry for your breast milk. It's also possible that as your baby nurses less, your milk supply is going down, which in turn makes him less interested in nursing because he has to work harder to get anything.
If you want to keep nursing, find a quiet place where your son won't become easily distracted. "If you're not producing as much milk as you used to, drink more fluids and try to nurse more often," suggests Garrett. At mealtime, you might want to nurse first, then put baby in his high chair for his diced potatoes and chicken so he has a greater appetite for breast milk.
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My daughter is almost six months old and stopped bf.She was sick with a cold on and off for almost a month and a half-now she has started teething.I couldn't stand to hear her cry bc I knew she was hungry so I started to give her a bottle more regularly.I work 3 days/week (and pump) and didn't realize that she would stop bf.Is there anyway to get her to start breastfeeding again? I am fearful that I'll give up and I wanted to bf for at least a year.
11/1/2010 11:50:36 AM Report AbuseMy son stopped nursing at nine months and I went ahead a switched him to whole milk. He went on an immediate growth spurt! All kids have different time lines and if they are ready to move on, they will let you know. Breastfeeding is best for them until, like everything else, they out-grow it at their own pace.
4/6/2010 10:47:06 AM Report Abusefor me the best way i use to breastfeeding is to pump the milk my soon like it and he drink a lot make him to sleep all the night.
1/11/2010 06:16:04 AM Report Abuse