Should I let my son get a pink cap and gown for preschool graduation pictures, which is what he liked on the website, or try to sway him to another color? I may end up just getting a black one because I have to find one cheap, but this issue has come up a few times. Pink is usually his choice, while I suggest red or blue so he won't get weird looks. I want him to be happy, but also don't want to look back and think I shouldn't have put him in pink.